“Sexual Harassment in the Media Industry”

When I was taking an engineering class in high school, a boy followed me into the supply closet and blocked the door so that I couldn’t get out. I was a virgin and the boy demanded a blowjob, which I didn’t even know what that was at the time. I punched his fat belly as I cried to leave. He grabbed my hands to touch him. I didn’t want to touch him because not only was I virgin then, I also came from a naïve Christian religious family. That incident happened in the autumn of 1995 in North Carolina. I … Continue reading “Sexual Harassment in the Media Industry”


I really like someone and yet there’s something about them that I love. The problem is that we’re not on the same page on a particular matter. I would love to be in a relationship where I can settle down. Sadly, they don’t want that because they’ve been married before. I’m not going to wait for them to change their mind. We have very distinguished interests and similarities. I don’t always agree with certain life choices they’ve made, but it’s the honesty about what they’ve done that made me love that part of them. No situation is perfect and as … Continue reading Imperfect

“Hispanic Male and East Asian Woman”

    Although the relationship is pretty much over, I wanted to share my experience of what it’s like to date a man who’s close to my age. He’s Hispanic and white. He did “23 and Me” thanks to me and learnt that his white mother isn’t German, after all, but is of Irish/English heritage instead and his Dominican father is technically half black as I had already told him when we first got together! He and I are both the third child of four children; he’s the middle son, where as I’m the baby girl. He was raised in … Continue reading “Hispanic Male and East Asian Woman”

“Single, Almost 40”

    I’m a single Asian female and I’ll be forty towards the end of next year. I’ve never been married but have had children, two. I’ve never had a long-term relationship beyond a year and a half because men often despise me due to my strong personality.   While so many people insist to embrace being single, it honestly sucks! As a person becomes older in age, it’s depressing to be single! I don’t want to come home to no one to talk to about my day, and no one to lay with to feel comforted. Even though I’ve … Continue reading “Single, Almost 40”


I met someone a while back. I wasn’t planning anything with that person. I initiated our first conversation. I was more impressed with what they were doing than with what they looked like. I gave them my contact card and it’d be several months before they reached out to me. They decided to eventually meetup and we did. They made the first physical move that I had no plans to reciprocate. No, it’s not rape, I just prefer surprises since they make me happy!   We hanged out twice and they “broke up” with me because they assumed we had … Continue reading “Love?”

The Accused

Have you ever been accused of something so extreme that it jeopardizes your personal and even professional life? 2017 has proved to be the year where many people, mostly women, have accused high powered men of sexual harassment and even rape. Those men are guilty, but the sad part, so many people have jumped on the bandwagon to accuse them even though they’ve never had a physical interaction with them.   Something that I know all too well, is that I know and can tell when people lie! For most persons, it’s the sudden stuttering when they’re known to be … Continue reading The Accused


  After spending time with relatives for different occasions, I picked up on a (newer) trend where the woman works and the man purposely unemployed, aka, he’s a household bum! Even with some (Asian) female friends, they too are taking care of their lazy ass boyfriend or husband. All of these women are convinced that they’re happy, when in truth, they are not since the man in their relationship chose to be a dead beat!   It seems like it’s getting more common that women, especially Asians, are in relationships with men who are lazy. My female cousins’ girl friends … Continue reading TOO MANY MEN ARE BUMS & WOMEN NEED TO STOP PAMPERING THESE DEADBEATS!