From March 2023

March 13, 2023 I don’t know why. Why? Does _ stay in my mind. What is it about them that keeps popping into my head? For all I know, they probably don’t even want me. I know I’m not a priority for them. I never have been. But there’s just something about _ that I

“WHY?”

  Why did I spend my little bit of money that was intended for my bills to rent a vehicle and drive out of town? Why did I go to that friend’s house when it started raining? Why did I even stay when they weren’t originally home? Why did I even strike up a conversation

“Girl, He Doesn’t Love You”

  Several years ago, a female friend of mine told me that revealed that her husband was cheating on her. What’s even ironic, even though she was much younger than him, she was the bread winner between them. She left him, obviously. She hasn’t really been openly involved with anyone since, to which, I don’t

Mistake – Song of Loss

    I didn’t know you were trying to be my best friend. I’ve been with persons who didn’t love me. You put a smile on my face when I least expected it. You always looked out for me when no other lovers did.   You’re my biggest mistake I hate myself for leaving you

“Not The ONLY One”

    I guess I’m not the only one who can’t seem to get over someone I was briefly involved with who doesn’t want me. I’ve had A LOT of flings in my adult life so far. Some flings are easier to get over as I get older while others, I can’t seem to do

Imperfect

I really like someone and yet there’s something about them that I love. The problem is that we’re not on the same page on a particular matter. I would love to be in a relationship where I can settle down. Sadly, they don’t want that because they’ve been married before. I’m not going to wait

“Hispanic Male and East Asian Woman”

    Although the relationship is pretty much over, I wanted to share my experience of what it’s like to date a man who’s close to my age. He’s Hispanic and white. He did “23 and Me” thanks to me and learnt that his white mother isn’t German, after all, but is of Irish/English heritage

“Single, Almost 40”

    I’m a single Asian female and I’ll be forty towards the end of next year. I’ve never been married but have had children, two. I’ve never had a long-term relationship beyond a year and a half because men often despise me due to my strong personality.   While so many people insist to

“Love?”

I met someone a while back. I wasn’t planning anything with that person. I initiated our first conversation. I was more impressed with what they were doing than with what they looked like. I gave them my contact card and it’d be several months before they reached out to me. They decided to eventually meetup

TOO MANY MEN ARE BUMS & WOMEN NEED TO STOP PAMPERING THESE DEADBEATS!

  After spending time with relatives for different occasions, I picked up on a (newer) trend where the woman works and the man purposely unemployed, aka, he’s a household bum! Even with some (Asian) female friends, they too are taking care of their lazy ass boyfriend or husband. All of these women are convinced that