This is a true incident and I’m not applauding the “player” who knows how to “play” but he denies it VERY well! The player type of guy who can get away with it in the beginning is someone who’s very handsome and an absolute charmer. When he wants to hook-up, he gets bashful and plays innocent, but in truth, he knew what he was doing all along! He knows that he can get any chick and prefer to get the “good” girl types that requires him to contact them. He doesn’t chase after the chicks that chase after him because he already knows that those are obvious ‘ho’s who’ll backstab him quickly when they catch on his player ways after the first time. He’s the type of guy who’s a good lover, kisser, and amazing at foreplay. He even smells good in the beginning!
A good player guy doesn’t make it known upfront that he’s after sex when he really is. He avoids words and locations that will make a lady think that all he wants is sex or sexual favors in which if she knew, she’d get away from him. A good player likes a challenge, and they prefer to “break” the shy or innocent types of women. Most of the time, this is relevant when older men go for younger women because they are naïve to their trickery. A good player knows how to talk to women of all levels, hence these men prefer women who are lawyers, doctors, and high on the corporate ladder business women. A good player prefers women of substance rather than those who are obvious wild party girl types. Women who have a busy lifestyle are less likely to catch on to the true intentions of the player guy(s). And a good player NEVER admits he’s a player, he’ll deny he is one!
So how did one particular guy finally get caught? His vocal vocabulary changed! He went from avoiding the obvious words that intended for sexual activity to finally saying them! That’s when he gave himself away of becoming a bad player type. He never admitted he’s a player and to this day, he’ll deny it. He could’ve kept going even after the adult fun ran its course, but his choice of words seemed depleted and no longer rich in context. He even ran out of good conversational pieces where he seemed like he’s sincerely interested when in the end, he truly wasn’t. A good player loves it when a woman softens up herself emotionally so that she’ll give in to his enticing sexual appeal.
A good player ALWAYS dresses well and as mentioned before, he even smells good! He has big eyes that are flirty from afar and big lips that when he softly bites his bottom lip from the side, women get weak in the knees! He’s always groomed for there are times, he never knows when he’ll hook up with a women since there are times even he wasn’t expecting any action that day or moment. The better player types of guys come from good homes where mom and dad are still married. Most of the time, the best player is someone who is a mama’s boy because if he can fool his mom and not get caught, he can fool any women! Guys who are products of a two parent household types tend to know how to communicate with the women they meet, especially the hard working ones who don’t have initial time to learn what a guy is honestly up to (just sex here and there, and NO commitment).
What are the chances a player can get played? Depends if he goes back, when most of the time, once a player is “gone”, he stays gone from whomever has caught him. He doesn’t even look back and avoids all possible contact for he’s afraid to confront her ever again since she’s caught on to his conniving ways.
“You say you’re not a player, but you sure crush a whole lot!”