So recalling what a bully Christina B. said to me back in our high school days, got me thinking about what I had said to her that I need to continue to apply.
Christina B. approached me during concert choir class at almost the end of our senior year and said to me that she broke up with Adam, “I broke it off with Adam so you can have him!”
I responded back, “I don’t want your leftovers!”
So as those days are long gone, Adam is married now with kids to someone else and the last I knew, Christina B. had married some guy. Well who cares about those fuckers, I moved on and took on a more adventurous life than they did! Sure my life isn’t perfect and I’ve had my fair share of mistakes and mishaps, but overall, there are only certain matters I wish I could change, while the rest turned out to be more adventurous.
For the most part, what I said back then as a very virginal girl came off as intelligent. I just have to remind my own self of the words I’ve previously said and apply it! In all truth as time has gone by, I’ve learned to NEVER fight over a man! No man is worth it! There are too many men out there in the world, so there’s no good and legit reason to fight over one with another female. My own learning experience has been the following:
A certain ex- of mine had gotten together with a much younger girl. He did tell her slanderous things about me that she had come to believe at the time when she got together with him. She even had this air that she was better than me. So, she eventually married and had a couple of kids by him, then after her last child, she suddenly came to her senses. She realized that he IS an irresponsible idiot and then some! The only problem now is that she can’t just get up and take her kids because she knows what he’ll do to her, take the kids away from her and label her the irresponsible one as he did to me when in truth, he’s the one who is VERY irresponsible! I never had to tell that girl anything, but I did always snub her before and surely enough it took her several years to catch on why I did so. In other words, I was RIGHT! I don’t take back anyone who thinks they’re better or can get better than me. I know I’m the better person but I chose not to brag about it openly.
Even with some recent situations with a couple of guys, hopefully the next females catch on and see that those guys aren’t any good and hopefully have the will power to leave.
So when the next chick thinks that I want her man, I’ll say the same thing as I did before, “I don’t want your leftovers!”
O gosh, I’m such a smart ass sometimes…