“(Physically) Strong or Smart Woman: The Difference”



There are many women who have a preconceived notion that they must be physically strong to make amends with their family members they’ve been disconnected with and old friends. The truth is that it isn’t about being physically strong, but intelligently strong, or “smart”. A woman can strong, but she needs to be emotionally strong rather than physically. Just as in the case with most body building men, they aren’t the smartest people when it comes to basic intellect, but they’re physically strong.


From my own personal mistakes and then observing others, I realized where I went wrong. I wish I figured it out sooner! Whenever a son or a daughter, such as myself, is the prodigal one or the black sheep, we need to go about life much different than our siblings and cousins. We don’t say we’ll get things done, we just accomplish what we can with no complaining and even at times, NEVER asking for help from our own family members! Even when we’re financially stuck and barely have a place to live, we are best to NEVER ask any relatives.


I look back now and have observed that it was me who was the stubborn one. Sure, I do have certain family members that’ll NEVER forgive or apologize for their mistreatment of me, but in hindsight, they’re fewer in numbers. If we want our own family to accept us, we have to prove to them that we’re successful in some way, and it’s usually financial success they’re mainly looking at.


I’ve been through A LOT in my life, and sadly, most of my tragedies have affected my emotional side. REAL genuine people of the world DON’T and HATE whiny people, especially those who’ve NEVER taken a step to change their personality and situation. I can’t change all the tragedies that I’ve endured, but I can learn from all of it. I know that most of what has affected me as an adult, is mainly my fault from my stubbornness and not that of others. Colleagues and so-called friends judge us based on what they see on the outside, since it’s the exterior that they see most often than our interior.


The average person goes through some extreme hardships in life, but not all showcase it on their bodies, especially in the facial expressions. There are some problems in life, where we just must accept that the results will not or even never be in our favor, and from there, move on by leaving it behind us. Just as humanity has migrated over the millenniums and centuries to other continents, migration to the far ends of various lands is because most of them chose to move on. In some of the most remote places in the world, people have settled in those communities, yet they have a doppelganger in some other country they’ve never been to before. My point is, all humans are related and since our ancestors have chosen to migrate over time, we have a look alike somewhere else.


My biggest mistake in life is forcing myself to do things such as applying for jobs that aren’t a good fit for me, so that I could pay my bills. The more we force ourselves without taking some time to observe all that is around, we are more likely to fail than be successful! I wasn’t being “smart” about life then, I was stubborn! Just as I had forced myself to look for a job some years ago, I got into a car wreck instead, totaling the sedan and not able to get adequate employment for some time after.


I have lived with people in a major city who chose to be failures overall and sulk in their misery, as they demand anyone new who came around to feel sorry for them. These people had NEVER endured anything extreme and are both physically and emotionally weak! They have no friends and chose to be disgusting, as they complained that they’re lack of finances and mental health holds them back. In the real world, REAL people don’t accept and don’t put up with people who claim financial and mental health is the reason for their failures, unless it’s obvious that they have extreme cases of being autistic or down syndrome.


We have ZERO excuses to continue to be miserable failures in life. Our immediate family members are the first to disown us and the last to accept us, so it’s the people we meet and get to know in the middle that we need to “impress” by our actions. Being physically strong never helped renowned people of the past for there is a reason their life was always cut short. It would always be the person who used intelligence who would end up living a more prosperous life.


Family members are more impressed when we give to them and don’t ask for anything financial in return. They will more likely do more for us and show humble acts of kindness when we stop begging for the material things. How do I know? I had personally experienced that and it works! I can’t change all the terrible things I’ve suffered, but by moving on in my life and realize that there are just certain matters I can’t patch up for the time being, I have become a happy person within. Just as when a person keeps picking at a gash on their skin, it’ll NEVER heal until they leave it alone and let time repair the wound. Some wounds take longer than others to heal.


As the black sheep in my family, I’ve learned that it was best for me to have moved away from my immediate family and relatives. I also forced myself to become more social and start to make my own friends in the city that I moved to. I’ve had housemates in the city who don’t real friends all because they chose to stay miserable and live near family, yet have a bad relationship with them since they’ve never parted ways on a greater scale. I’ve become friends with various people in the city who chose to be smart than physically strong, by leaving their home countries or states. All the people, who left their family behind for being the black sheep, are all successful in life! There is a reason why I am grateful for forcing myself to be social in a new city, I was able to meet people who are A LOT like me! Several of the people I’ve become friends with are women who were mistreated by their family members for just being a female since they’re Asian. Those women inspire me to do more since they’ve lived in other countries being a stranger in new places and never asking for money from their family as they occasionally struggled financially.


I can yell at someone in their face to try to force them to change their ways, but that’ll NEVER work! I know now why my dating life has always been terrible, it was me chasing after horrible men who would ONLY mistreat me as their sign of trying to dominate. They mistreated me because I had allowed myself to be emotionally weak, rather than be smart. In recent time, unlikely men have gone out of their way for me and did things with a smile on their face, as they didn’t demand anything sexual for the act of kindness. I taught myself to ALWAYS wash up and bathe before leaving the house. Also, I dress comfortably nice and fix my appearance. I’m not thin, but I do some form of exercise in the outdoors as much as possible to keep fit looking and not saggy fat. Just because sooooo many women force themselves to be terribly thin, doesn’t mean they’re honestly happy with their life and most never have a smile on their face while in any public setting.


MANY women of all shapes and sizes, can’t seem be and keep a successful romantic relationship as they would like to be in due to their smug exterior. MOST women nowadays have ABF (angry bitch face) instead of the ol’ RBF (resting bitch face), which keeps any potential life partner AWAY from them since they appear unpleasant! NO man or woman wants to be in a romantic relationship with a woman who is obviously vain or whines too much over petty matters that don’t apply to them! No one wants to be romantically involved with a woman who chose to be failure than successful. As a woman, it’s not about what we go through that makes determines who and how we are, but it’s how we endure and escape the hardships with little or even no help from those we deemed close to us. There are numerous people who exclaim that they don’t need friends (or few) and claim to have “haters” against them; we need friends and people aren’t “haters”, they just offer a reality check!


Our life is based on our “smart” actions for success not physical strength. We endure the pain and tragedies that life throws onto us by handling the situations with patience and thinking out of a solution for the long run verses concluding immediately only to suffer from it later.  We need friends, but also family. We need to make successful decisions for ourselves and not excuses that will only make a person angry on the outside. We need to take a good look into a big mirror and thoroughly observe our face and body. We need to ALWAYS look for ways improve ourselves on the outside since that is how people in the world see us. ALWAYS make sure to have a smile on our face before we walk away from a big mirror. Remember, that the first impression is the last impression anyone we encounter will have of us.

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Bono Insults Trump

At the recent concert hosted by Salesforce for their conference Dreamforce in San Francisco, California, they had the band U2 perform at Cow Palace. Dreamforce attendees were taken in shuttle buses from the Moscone Convention Center in the downtown area to the concert.


Sales Dot Oh



Sales isn’t for anyone. Whether it be retail, commercial, residential real estate, or even various forms of corporate sales, a career in such a demanding field isn’t ideal for most who are even in it. Some of the best looking men and women from around the world work in some kind of sales since the general population is attracted to attractive people. But what gets a business or even a person involved in purchasing something they specifically need in their personal and/or professional life? How does a real sales person coerce a potential client or customer into buying a product or service of any kind?


Many people go through many years of extra schooling to learn how to sell. Selling is the most difficult career to have, for it involves patience of others. Many self-made multi-millionaires and billionaires have had numerous books printed in regard to having a career in sales. What most people fail to understand, is that some of the best sales men and women have created their own brand within themselves, in other words, they were practically born with it!


For most persons, sales of some kind was their first job as a youth and most took that experience into adulthood. Some people become successful in sales while most are just in that career merely because, they “needed” a job at the time, only to become miserable! Many college and university graduates have obtained corporate types of sales jobs upon graduation; but that degree doesn’t make the business major a good seller!


Sales requires a certain type of intelligence, humility, listener, friendly, and honest thinker. Not all ideal sales persons have to be a supermodel type! Just because a man or woman looks attractive to others, doesn’t mean they know how to realistically close a business deal. Selling also requires that people have a genuine smile showing their good teeth, clean appearance, and must have excellent hygiene. No potential customer would ever want anything to do with a person who has dandruff, sour body odor, and halitosis! How well does a sales persons listen to the needs of a client they’re trying to close a deal with and can thoroughly come up with the precise solution for what they do to make it apply?


Many business persons who’ve been receiving investments from companies in other parts of the world, have learned to speak and understand other languages other than their native tongue. This is also a sales tactic to consider if a person or a company is trying to generate successful leads. Some of the best business deals for certain successful start-ups, are those who’ve learned how to verbally communicate in another language as well as learn their culture so that they can apply what they do to them.


Business intelligence has changed in the past several years and it will continue to change for various needs based on the needs of the mass population of their community or even country. Good sales tactics and tricks are not taught in higher education course; they’re learned by personally observing one’s own surroundings. Whether a person is from a small town or metropolis, selling to just about anyone isn’t possible. Some people are better at sales in communities they weren’t raised because they took on a challenge to accomplish a greater task, where as some stayed within their home area.


How well does a sales person know their products for sale? How many real estate agents truly know about a home they’re trying to sell if they never built it themselves? What about car sales people; how many of them have actually worked on vehicles or even built one? How well does a retail sales associate know about what clothes and shoes looks on various body types and the colors that look best verses what’s in season? What kind of office space is needed for companies of a certain size? How well does a software sales person know about the programming that went into building it when they didn’t put it together? There are so many questions that have and will continue to rise, especially, very respectively.


In all truth, most persons need to reconsider that a career in sales just isn’t a good professional fit for them since they’re somewhat anti-social or even lacking patience. Good sales persons have love for all people in their heart and mind. They’re always very honest in their decision making skills. They are also very direct, straight to the point, don’t bullshit!


Sales people are likened to bartenders, therapists, and even hair stylists. All these people have to come up with a plan, to make sure you leave their presences content and extremely happy! A good bartender may offer a suggestion of wine over a beer or even liquor based on what they notice in a customer’s mood. A hair stylist will suggest that the recipient try something daring such as a short spiked haircut with different colors. A therapist will offer assistance in a person’s life to make them feel joyful instead of depressed. A sales person of any kind, will offer up not just any package deal, but a client base to keep them satisfied, returning for the newest product or service they’re being presented with. Even when it comes to B2B, a person from a certain particular company can still offer something to a customer that they wouldn’t normally accept their business.


So what can be said about how sales is being done today? Sales comes in all factors of life. Some people are meant to be in that career path while others, it’s not meant for them in the end. You can sell anything to anyone, but it takes the right sales man and/or woman to be able to sell a product or service to ANY customer who will never say, “I want my money back”.

“Mistakes Women Make”



I’ve mainly had male friends ever since I was a child. I notice that MOST women read and believe what they see in so-called magazine advice columns and listening to certain dating coaches. There’s a reason why many women are so desperate to be with a partner and can’t, and those who are in relationships are miserable. What are the mistake women have come to believe?

There’s a generalization that I’ve come to learn about men of various racial heritage. It’s MOSTLY accurate in my observances.

White male: Into big breasts on women majority of the time and if not, prefer extremely skinny as the idea of beautiful. A preference for plain and simple looking.

Black male: Into full figured women with the highest rate of into big butts. No matter rich or poor, they tend to go for women heavily into clothes and jewelry.

Hispanic males: prefer more fully figured women but depending which country of origin, the overall preference can and will vary

Asian males: MOSTLY prefer extremely petite and skinny women.

Men who are of numerous ethnicities will vary overall in the type of women they date or become friends with (female friendly gay man). Depending on which racial makeup they are either raised amongst or around in general will determine their preferred female.


The biggest problem today, is that no matter what ethnicity a man is, they’ve become just as much glued to their mobile phones as women, either to play games all the time or generally looking up even the slightest information. REAL men do allow their eyes to be taken away from their phone, but it takes a good woman to keep them physically engaging! Younger males nowadays are obsessed with texting instead of making phone calls as they used to, all while the majority are socially awkward because of this behavior. Young people are prone to find someone to date and have sex with from a “dating” app or website than from merely meeting initially in person.

Why are SOOOO many people miserable in their current romantic relationship or constantly dating life? People have allowed the media industry to dictate how they should date, look, and live outside of their comfortable means. Whether people admit it or not, usually they won’t, they chase after something that just isn’t ideal for their own self. MOST women are obsessed with wearing so much caked on cosmetics, but the reality is that good men, don’t like any of that! No matter the ethnicity of men, a good man despises whenever women wear excessive makeup! They prefer natural beauty with a happy smile!

The other REAL problem with women nowadays, is their attitude! Just because a woman has a nice figure, expensive clothes, and wears a lot of makeup, doesn’t mean she will have a good attitude. Most women who look that certain way, always appear to be angry and miserable in public, and that’s a fact – look around! Most women have subjectified themselves to stupidity and vanity rather than with intelligence. A true good man, will take intelligence and simplicity over “beauty” and stupidity any day, but that’s rare anywhere! Whenever a woman puts a lot of make-up on, she’s hiding not only who she really but her personality as well.

There’s nothing wrong with a woman identifying as a heterosexual feminist. Women have lost respect from men in a subtle manner from this newer idea of being a dominate feminist. When a woman is on a romantic date, the man is supposed to pick-up the whole tab and she is to teach him restraint from demanding sexual activity of any kind especially if it’s a new thing. When a woman is on a friendly date with a man, it’s OK for her to pay half or have him pay the whole tab, all while being mutual with one another. Women nowadays immediately ask for a man’s phone number. I don’t do so, and have told men who said they’ll give me their contact initially, “I don’t call (and/or text) a man first.” Some men were upset when I told them that, and only some have accepted that I taught them a certain set of manners! If a woman wants to dominate a man, she should teach him to respect her by educating him to have some good manners and not be stubborn about it, be in control! Men who’ve allowed themselves to be “controlled” in a subtle manner by the women they’re with, are more likely to be happier in life than those who continue to dominate “weak” women.

Women who continue to chase men ONLY for their wealth, will never be honestly happy in life. A good majority of the women from around the world have become materially selfish. True love isn’t about the biggest diamond a woman gets, she’ll never be happy deep inside her soul. “Gold-digging” women are generally numb and secretly miserable. Love isn’t about the money a man gives to a woman who refuses to work hard on her own. Most of the honestly happy women in the world are not extremely materially wealthy, but are those who’ve made their own personal financial success, even if it means they’re barely getting by with their housing and bills.

Some key things for women to remember:

Don’t initiate into a romantic relationship with a man.

Don’t get his contact first, give him yours!

Don’t hide behind a ton of make-up.

Learn to be financially independent.

Learn to have intelligent conversations.

Be simple.

Smile and show some teeth when doing so.


All it takes is to bring back the simpler things in life and not be in excess.

“Women in Tech: How Box Showed Diversity”



It’s been well over a week since Box Works ended for the 2016 year. I thought that I give it some time for people who attended and those who were unable to, grasp onto something that I caught on to.

The opening keynote for this year was by the CEO of Box, Aaron Levie. Not only did he give his own introductions for the company’s new products and services, but he also had mostly women on his panel that lasted a little over two hours in all. When it came to presenting new products from within the company and others, Aaron had mostly women demonstrate how the services are to operate. He even had a fireside chat with a woman from Google. I am impressed!

Now, I post this in time for major tech conferences such as Oracle Open World (OOW) and Dreamforce. All of these tech and business conferences happen in San Francisco, California in the brain of Silicon Valley.

As an attendee of tech events for the past five almost six years, I have seen that from the early days, there weren’t many women who were actively participating while in attendance. There was a lack of gender equality in which most women were initially afraid to enter into the male dominated industry. What most people don’t know is that the main founders for Box and Oracle are males who didn’t even finish college!

So there are women scheduled for various panels during OOW. Will that be enough to make other women interested to join the enterprise tech industry in non-secretarial roles? What was impressive at Box Works this year, is seeing women being able to give stutter-free presentations and talks about products for the work place. Some of the women were nervous, but most of them definitely had confidence in tackling gender inequality in tech.

Younger women nowadays have it much easier to enter the tech industry. My older female colleagues have been around long enough to have endured the pain of an industry they were bullied around in.

Women do know how to program. They know how to decipher what a glitch or other computer software issues happens to be and solve them immediately. Women can easily talk to a crowd of predominately men to showcase how something works. Sometimes it takes a good man to give women opportunities. In any case, women have proven to be dedicated and harder workers at what they do. Women are perfectionist and in the tech industry, it’s all about perfection.


“Technology and Politics”



Half of the human race LOVES technology and embrace it. The other half of humanity, HATES technology. It doesn’t matter whether people are young or old or even their race, technology has haters and lovers.

No matter which country any person decides to go to, the persons in charge, consist of mostly old men. Older men are stubborn when it comes to new ideas, and most have a difficult time with how technology is rapidly changing.

Technology has caused severe world problems that politicians are still stumbled over. MANY new laws have had to be created in recent times to combat the issues caused by people abusing technology. These new regulations regarding technology has caused a bad taste for CEO’s and Founders of major companies operating today.

Many people have benefitted from technology recently as it’s been possible that people are given a greater chance at life so as to be able to see, walk, speak, hear, and have limbs created for what they lost or was merely born without.

Politicians will always need to be educated as to the materials that are needed to create these emerging products for our future. Even when it comes to construction materials, some components are labelled as “illegal” because previous times before they were declared “unsafe” by people who didn’t know much about it. As building laws have to be forced to changed quicker than ever, technology laws have been created and altered just as fast.

In times past, the old men running our countries used to spend months or years debating whether or not to put certain laws into action. In current times, the old men are forced to create or alter laws on a daily basis so as to keep up with the trends of the community and the world.

With regard to building a product of any kind, there are parts that will or are needed but sometimes the process that it was made in was made as a hazard or some other current inefficient unknown because previous operators weren’t properly trained to use them. When people fail to learn, giving up, many political figures of the past, see that as an opportunity to label something as “bad/unhealthy, etc.”

For example, in the USA, some of the parts that go into making solar panels are labelled as illegal by building code laws that were made as far back as nearly a hundred years ago! In most of Europe, they have the same overall set of building codes, making their new homes and commercial property energy efficient. Also, even some of the parts that are going into making prosthetics were previously labelled harmful when they were used for some other reason, but that issue hasn’t arisen on a noticeable scale.

What can we do as citizens of the world? We can help make a difference by educating our world leaders and politicians to change laws so that when we can have the proper benefits of what technology has brought us. These people are unaware as a whole that legality is keeping production from advancing so that ALL of us can benefit. Also, people need to educate themselves about why they need these new forms of technology into their personal and professional life. When we teach ourselves the benefits of what technology can bring for the greater good, then we can happy as our communities advance into the future.