“Colleagues and Friends, Part 1”


In big cities, one’s colleagues are their friends! I grew up with the notion that it’s improper to not mix business with pleasure, yet several colleagues and friends met their life partner or spouse from work. Times have changed with since the old coined terms about business but there are some lessons that will never die. In smaller towns around the world, meeting a life partner does have challenges since they would be in small working circles. In big cities, couples can work at the same company, and yet they never see each other during their day due to the many different departments in their place of employment. So, what’s the ordeal nowadays?


I know from experience that when colleagues make time for me, I must be on their schedule. When I make plans with friends, only half will accommodate their time for me while the other half doesn’t even bother to cancel or reschedule. There’s a reason why some of those friends get demoted to being more of an acquaintance since they’re inconsiderate with scheduling and timing when it comes to certain things. There’s also the other reason why those who are irresponsible with their time just so happen to be terrible at their job and go through them constantly, never being happy and content. A good number of colleagues become friends over time because we share similar interests separate from their employment.


Whenever we are in a new (living) situation, we must adapt, not to what we want but to what others need! This concept applies for both colleagues and new friends we’ve made and will make. The ONLY people who will tarnish their own reputation, are the ones who refuse to accommodate the time of others that are making for them. The old saying, “time is money” continues to hold true to this day, yet many people haven’t applied that term and it’ll be a long time if they ever do! Successful people apply, “time is money” whereas those who have failed, NEVER applied that into both their professional and personal life.


We can only say and do so much for our friends and colleagues. If they refuse to accept our advice, that’s their loss and not ours. Men are cockier to accept advice and life discipline in both business and their private life. Women in general are humbler. Not everyone is meant to be a leader while those who are successful employees (followers) do listen, take notes, and apply when advised. We cannot fix people who are stubborn and continued failures. The most successful people in business for the past 200 years have had to make changes in their life to become the household names we know well past their death.


I may not see some friends and colleagues as much as I used to. But what I do know is that before their successful business ventures skyrocketed, they made time for me and even others. What I learned from them, is that many people they have skipped out on making time for them with the result of being a failed business contact due to their rash behavior. It’s all trial and error of who will make time for you or in my case, for me.


It doesn’t matter where, when, and how a person is educated to be successful in business and other matters of life. Any person can have attended prominent schools around the globe, but half don’t even apply structure into their own life that will help them succeed in business and romantic relationships too. “Timing is everything” continues to hold true, too. Are we going to be late to a meeting that will determine our business professional fate or even our own wedding? I’d rather be early than late. Being late results in a bitter fate.


“Taking a Break”

Every woman and gay man needs to take a break from having random hook-up sex with men. Why? The men that we get with, don’t love us, and they’ve proven that they honestly are disrespectful. Most men, no matter where you go to in the world, only care about one thing, and that is getting free sex whenever, wherever, and with whomever he wants it. These men don’t respect women (and other gay men like themselves) and are not feminists. They are arrogant assholes who just want to be in control. These are the same men who don’t even take responsibility as they spread incurable STD’s and make children they don’t even provide for.


These men aren’t just stereotyped black and Latinos, but this also includes white and Asian men who have been getting away with this, all while no one really says anything! ALL races and nationalities of men are overbearing to deal with, controlling, and insensitive. No race of men is any better, they’re ALL equally as terrible, but white and Asian men are the very worse since there are more of them around the globe!


Women (and gay men) need to take a stand against these men but the problem is that most women are too needy and would rather subject herself to his verbal, financial, emotional, and physical abuse. There’s a reason why these control freak men are going to continue their terrible ways, and it’s only because SOOO many women are naïve to give in since they’re mentally and socially weak.


How long of a time frame will a woman have a break from dating and having sex with men? It all depends on the woman and if she spends her time wisely to not really think about having urges for sex and lousy companionship. A woman (me included) needs to evaluate what her purpose is to have a man in her life other than for sex and to fill in the void of being lonely. (Not every woman can have a cat and/or a dog because someone like me is allergic!) Will he bring me up in life or tear me down? Will he contribute that I be successful all while he avoids vanity by not taking credit? Will he be employed in some way and NEVER ask me for money as he pays all the bills?


No matter where you go in the world, women are continuously mistreated by men. Half of the women in the world live in a country where they have no human rights and can’t stand up to men since it’s part of her culture that she will be imprisoned or even murdered for doing so. Women in prominent countries don’t honestly know how easy they have it to have control over men with their sex appeal, feminist laws, and intelligence by means of having a higher education. Sure, many women take advantage of their sex appeal towards men, but they don’t take advantage of the laws in their favor and allowed to be educated.

On the flipside of things, there are A LOT of women who have ruined relationships and dating with men for other women and men. Those women come in ALL races and nationalities, so there’s no finger pointing which ones are the most terrible of them all! Those conniving women are obviously out for selfish gain and have taken advantage of the laws in which they reside, going as far as accusing other women and men of violence against them! These same types of women have caused other women to lose employment to become homeless, wrongfully have their child(ren) taken away, stolen identification, robbed stores, and accused good men of physical abuse so they can laugh at being imprisoned. It’s painful to see that a woman would betray her fellow sister!


A good woman would take time off dating and sex with men, not as a feminist protest, but to help herself to grow as a person mentally, emotionally, and psychologically. It’s a struggle that’s extremely difficult for many women who have led a life of indulgence, then learning later that all along, all of it never made them happy, and at the very least, content. No women should just go about her life in sweats. Women still need to look at their very best and then some. She shouldn’t stop being sexy just because she’s tuning out men for an indefinite time. EVERY woman needs to be sexy looking and not give in to the deceptive offers from men! A woman should always look amazing and show that she’s also confident to decline the men that flirt with her.


What is on my agenda as a I go about my days? It’s my goal to always look amazing and not look frumpy. It’s my goal to be engaging with people I know and will meet. It’s important that I be social. It’s important that I recognize the advances from men who honestly don’t care anything about me and my life, who are ONLY after sex and nothing more. It’s my goal to share with other women and gay men to do the same. It’s my goal to be happy and content. It’s my goal to be confident. It’s my goal to prove that I don’t need a male companion to be happy and successful. It’s my goal to tell men, “NO” when I don’t feel comfortable. It’s my goal to make sure the men currently in my life and the others that come along, to be chivalrous. It’s my goal to make men respect me.


At the end of each day, we reflect in the sunset about what we’ve accomplished either that day or time in life. Is the sunset clear or is it a bit gloomy? If it’s clear, then there will be many good days and moments where we reflect of the positive choices in life.

“Success with Updating Something Old”



I had an interesting and filling week for the second week of July 2017. It started out with a luncheon where a tech company had revamped their hardcore products. The second event consisted of IoT (Internet of Things) and what VC’s (Venture Capital) had to say about the emerging market. The second day and third set of events is a combination of sorts, solar and semiconductors. The third day had to events: Google Cloud and S&P Dow Jones, yes, very different industries!


In the tech industry, it’s the most competitive of all the other industries as a whole. Why? Developers and start-up founders have all worked with one another in some form or another in the early days of their careers. All-of their ideas about how to fix certain problems clash throughout months and even years, causing various persons to part ways and start their own projects or another company overall. Since the early 2000’s, tech companies have been suing one another by means of using an “old” law concept of: copyright infringement and failure to abide an NDA (Non-Disclosure Agreement). The tech start-ups are obviously new, having been created in the past decade give or take, and yet, most of the men and women operating them have not read up on the “old” business laws created in their country, causing legal actions against them!


When I did my research on some of the VC companies on several workshop panels of that week, the newer firms have been sued within the past few years over greed from one of the parties but have managed to profit from their investments in a VERY short period of time whereas the older companies took a couple of years to several decades. Business practices are changing and what the younger CEO’s and founders have been accused of is sexual harassment, being underpaid, and stealing funds from the company bank account and putting into their personal one. Older companies have had the same type accusations but with social media, the complaints are automatically on every news outlet where as a half century ago, it would be in the newspaper a week later. Being an investor isn’t just about investing smart, it’s about having excellent when engaging with employees, colleagues, customers, and clients.


Tech needs investors and VC’s need something to put their money into to bring in recurring income. Some VC’s don’t think that there will be a recession in the US or even the rest of the world, while others DO suspect there will be by the end of 2017 into 2018. The reason behind the fear of investors is that they see the business market crash since MOST people will be out of work due to machines doing more work that used to be for five to ten persons to operate per item. Most persons around the globe don’t already have proper skill sets and don’t have the proper education to back them up on top of it all.


No matter where people live in the USA or in the world, politics are hindering what people can be employed to do by continuing to limit their businesses and resources. For example, most countries in the world have created other ways to generate electric power by using hydro, solar, and wind turbines. In the USA, some of the equipment and parts that go into making any of the supplies is still declared illegal and unsafe according to building laws that were written at least a century ago! Europe and Asia have been active in creating more forms of alternative and clean energy that they are able to be sustainable during extreme weather changes and have sufficient food supplies. Is there any reason why a known first world country can’t adjust and compete with the countries that have a lower GDP?

What people to do with their own money, can vary person to person and their influences. We can’t control what people do to invest or splurge with their hard-working earnings. In first world countries, the average person spends their money on little things rather than what’s important regarding their needs over temporary wants. Just as with investments, most persons will invest in old ideas since they see them as a more long-term fix rather than on newer options that are taking over the economy anywhere you go in the world.


Many companies that have been in business for well over a hundred years, are going bankrupt if they haven’t already gone under! Many companies that have been around for as short as five to ten years have profited into the billions and trillions. For anyone who wants to invest their time and money into something that will be trending indefinitely, they will have to put their interest into the medical and technical fields since all other industries are no longer around due to poor sales and lots of losses. Emerging tech is helping not just the average person, but also for the medical industry to help cure or even detect diagnosis’s that people are born with.


New money needs to stay with other new money types of companies and organizations. They need to invest into their own even though many companies are a competition rather than as a client or some kind of customer or user. We can’t depend the old companies that can’t stay afloat in the new age where technology is taking over industries that used to take actual physical labor. Machines are making our homes, food, vehicles we drive, and our clothing. Sure, it does take human brain power to make sure these machines are up and running properly, but where are the jobs? They don’t exist due to the creation of more machines.


We need to update many things in our professional life. That includes our investments, living situation, and colleagues. Who we surround ourselves does influence what we do when making serious life decisions that we didn’t know was possible aside from where we lived and whom we’d settled down with or have children.  So, for today, make a list of what our monetary successes are. If the number is low, then we need to make changes to keep up with the world around us where we desire to or not. The world isn’t going to wait for us, we just need to catch up!