Every woman and gay man needs to take a break from having random hook-up sex with men. Why? The men that we get with, don’t love us, and they’ve proven that they honestly are disrespectful. Most men, no matter where you go to in the world, only care about one thing, and that is getting free sex whenever, wherever, and with whomever he wants it. These men don’t respect women (and other gay men like themselves) and are not feminists. They are arrogant assholes who just want to be in control. These are the same men who don’t even take responsibility as they spread incurable STD’s and make children they don’t even provide for.
These men aren’t just stereotyped black and Latinos, but this also includes white and Asian men who have been getting away with this, all while no one really says anything! ALL races and nationalities of men are overbearing to deal with, controlling, and insensitive. No race of men is any better, they’re ALL equally as terrible, but white and Asian men are the very worse since there are more of them around the globe!
Women (and gay men) need to take a stand against these men but the problem is that most women are too needy and would rather subject herself to his verbal, financial, emotional, and physical abuse. There’s a reason why these control freak men are going to continue their terrible ways, and it’s only because SOOO many women are naïve to give in since they’re mentally and socially weak.
How long of a time frame will a woman have a break from dating and having sex with men? It all depends on the woman and if she spends her time wisely to not really think about having urges for sex and lousy companionship. A woman (me included) needs to evaluate what her purpose is to have a man in her life other than for sex and to fill in the void of being lonely. (Not every woman can have a cat and/or a dog because someone like me is allergic!) Will he bring me up in life or tear me down? Will he contribute that I be successful all while he avoids vanity by not taking credit? Will he be employed in some way and NEVER ask me for money as he pays all the bills?
No matter where you go in the world, women are continuously mistreated by men. Half of the women in the world live in a country where they have no human rights and can’t stand up to men since it’s part of her culture that she will be imprisoned or even murdered for doing so. Women in prominent countries don’t honestly know how easy they have it to have control over men with their sex appeal, feminist laws, and intelligence by means of having a higher education. Sure, many women take advantage of their sex appeal towards men, but they don’t take advantage of the laws in their favor and allowed to be educated.
On the flipside of things, there are A LOT of women who have ruined relationships and dating with men for other women and men. Those women come in ALL races and nationalities, so there’s no finger pointing which ones are the most terrible of them all! Those conniving women are obviously out for selfish gain and have taken advantage of the laws in which they reside, going as far as accusing other women and men of violence against them! These same types of women have caused other women to lose employment to become homeless, wrongfully have their child(ren) taken away, stolen identification, robbed stores, and accused good men of physical abuse so they can laugh at being imprisoned. It’s painful to see that a woman would betray her fellow sister!
A good woman would take time off dating and sex with men, not as a feminist protest, but to help herself to grow as a person mentally, emotionally, and psychologically. It’s a struggle that’s extremely difficult for many women who have led a life of indulgence, then learning later that all along, all of it never made them happy, and at the very least, content. No women should just go about her life in sweats. Women still need to look at their very best and then some. She shouldn’t stop being sexy just because she’s tuning out men for an indefinite time. EVERY woman needs to be sexy looking and not give in to the deceptive offers from men! A woman should always look amazing and show that she’s also confident to decline the men that flirt with her.
What is on my agenda as a I go about my days? It’s my goal to always look amazing and not look frumpy. It’s my goal to be engaging with people I know and will meet. It’s important that I be social. It’s important that I recognize the advances from men who honestly don’t care anything about me and my life, who are ONLY after sex and nothing more. It’s my goal to share with other women and gay men to do the same. It’s my goal to be happy and content. It’s my goal to be confident. It’s my goal to prove that I don’t need a male companion to be happy and successful. It’s my goal to tell men, “NO” when I don’t feel comfortable. It’s my goal to make sure the men currently in my life and the others that come along, to be chivalrous. It’s my goal to make men respect me.
At the end of each day, we reflect in the sunset about what we’ve accomplished either that day or time in life. Is the sunset clear or is it a bit gloomy? If it’s clear, then there will be many good days and moments where we reflect of the positive choices in life.