With millennials, if they do decide to marry, they usually end up dating their significant other for as long as ten to fifteen years as well as living with each other most of that time. The idea of love with young people nowadays is that they move in with each other immediately and stay together unmarried for many years. The average family is also very accepting of this new trend of dating, where their loved one is with someone for at least a decade before getting married.
When it comes to heterosexual couples who cohabitate for many years, the woman averages at least two to three abortions during that time frame because at some point, her usual form of birth control fails her. Even though heterosexual couples live together without being married, there’s still a lot of stigmatism about having a child out of wedlock, especially when either or both are from an Asian and/or an upper class white family. Persons of either heritage never discuss this personal part with their family and friends, just the gynecologist!
While most people nowadays are generally holding off marriage, they’re definitely not holding back from having a lot of intercourse! Most young people are pursuing college and a professional career more than ever, and to have a child will put a damper in achieving any of that! Since abortions are legal, women are going under the radar to have them constantly since all other forms of birth control may not work properly for various health reasons.
While many women are still able to get pregnant and have a full term pregnancy, many other women are not able to get and stay pregnant once they’re married. The process of abortions has improved medically, but the process can take a toll on a woman’s body once she decides to marry and start a family with her husband. Medically, many women think they’re invincible that they can have a bunch of abortions before they legally marry their significant other of a decade or longer, but the truth is, they’re not. Asian and upper class white women have a mentality that having a child out of wedlock is common and acceptable only with black and Hispanic women, the type of women they don’t want anything to do with.
Having a child out of wedlock is taboo for Asian and upper white families. Not all is it taboo, but it’s still shameful that usually amounts to being disowned. While people are open about having a lot of sex without being married, having a child is not acceptable even in our modern times. The types of women who have the most abortions are mainly Asian and upper class white women. Some of them have as many have been known to have at least one abortion per year prior to getting married to their male partner.
So why are women marrying later in life? Women are more selfish than ever but also they’re taking advantage of their youth to travel and see the world as a “single person”. Having children for most women puts a damper on traveling and excess of sex with numerous partners. If anyone would ask a young single childless woman about having a child, she’ll be disgusted at the thought of having a child soon even if she is living with her long term boyfriend. Society has taught women to postpone having children or the refusal to have them all together. When women postpone having children, the child or children are more likely to have mental health issues, a matter that can’t be diagnosed in an ultrasound. Why is that? It’s because many women nowadays have spent many years excessing with alcohol and drug use, which always takes a toll on all women’s physical bodies and not that of men. Women are engaging in alcoholism and drugs openly more than ever while they’re in their youth which causes problems once they have children later in life as they’ve also had numerous abortions.
There’s nothing wrong for women to have children later in life. It’s just best that she avoids being an alcoholic, a drug addict, and abstain from sexual intercourse with men since birth control medications may not cooperate with her body.