I was having a conversation with an aunt about my cousins who are all grown now. We discussed a matter that has plaguing our Asian culture as well as it’s just common everywhere else. If you’re curious to what that is, it’s that men don’t take the initiative with their potential or actual in-laws. This is another reason why I’m ultimately single in the end because I haven’t met a man who was genuine to take the initiative to do things for me and eventually my family. It doesn’t matter what a race a man is, they don’t do … Continue reading “FAMILY DYNAMICS”

“Looking Up Into The Cloud”

    With recent natural disasters, many major city areas have been submerged. South Asia is known for their location of enterprise call and data centers, and the Houston area has numerous corporation subdivisions. Flooding has caused many people to be without power and vehicles can’t get to the people that need help for at least food. How do these situations affect companies?   More than ever, many corporations and enterprises will have no choice than to use the cloud verses the physical on-prem to store all-of their company data and then some. If a company’s other facility’s power goes … Continue reading “Looking Up Into The Cloud”

“Insecure, After-all”

    With the political quarrels all over this world, governmental figures are blaming one each other that they’ve been hacked. There’s skepticism whether that someone who happens to be working for the opposing government, hacked the systems, or in these matters, it was more likely carelessness from political persons that allowed a regular “Joe” or “Sue” to access it all. Are corporations the next targets to hack their servers attacked or was it just governments from around the world that suffered?   No matter where a person goes to in the world, governments are broke and they can’t even … Continue reading “Insecure, After-all”

“Burning Bridges”

    What is the most difficult ordeal to cope when dealing with people we know? People will burn bridges under us. Why? The people who have been burning bridges, don’t understand the hardship it takes to make one’s self successful in materially, mentally, socially, emotionally, and overall economically. It doesn’t matter how old a woman or man is, people are narcissistic. Most persons from all walks of life are too selfish to accept working hard to get somewhere. They’re unempathetic to what it means to work hard, by using every bit of physical and emotional energy of ourselves.   … Continue reading “Burning Bridges”

Which one describes your relationship status?

A.) Several colleagues ended their romantic relationship with their significant other because they chose not to be on the same page in their growing success. B.) Several (former) colleagues chose to stay with the same significant other and can’t figure out why they continue to fail at everything they do. C.) Several colleagues are in a successful relationship with their significant otherwho is on the (same) path to success as them, even  if it means being in a different industry. D.) Several colleagues just chose to stay single because most persons they’ve been interested romantically, didn’t have (the same) goals … Continue reading Which one describes your relationship status?

“Why I Chose NOT to Go Back to School AGAIN”

  EVERY day in my youth, I was told that I was stupid, fat, ugly, and a failure. My sisters ALWAYS told me that and my mother, of all people. ALL of my cousins and aunts that I grew up around, they too insulted me with the same. ALL of the family friends NEVER said anything nice to me, just insulted me, assuming it was funny. I grew up believing that I am fat, ugly, and a failure, just not stupid. I never knew what good I was until I got away from my family by parting ways with the … Continue reading “Why I Chose NOT to Go Back to School AGAIN”

“Colleagues and Friends, Part 1”

  In big cities, one’s colleagues are their friends! I grew up with the notion that it’s improper to not mix business with pleasure, yet several colleagues and friends met their life partner or spouse from work. Times have changed with since the old coined terms about business but there are some lessons that will never die. In smaller towns around the world, meeting a life partner does have challenges since they would be in small working circles. In big cities, couples can work at the same company, and yet they never see each other during their day due to … Continue reading “Colleagues and Friends, Part 1”